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Book summary of "Flow" + select links from this week that you might enjoy

George Kurdin
Dec 18, 2022
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Today at a glance:

  • Book summary: “Flow” by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. Classic psychology book where author breaks down an “optimal experience” and how to get in the flow state. I share raw notes from, select quotes, and key things I learned.

  • Select things I read this week that you might enjoy

source: Flow book cover

Why did I read this book?

I was interested in deep work and read this during winter of 2018. We can be in the zone when playing sports or when gaming. What is it about those experiences that puts us in hyper-focus? How do we create a culture at work where the team is in flow state max % of the time - a culture where we achieve results and enjoy the journey?

Raw notes from the book:

  • Chaos is a fundamental part of universe. Universe was not designed with our comfort in mind. It is full of pain/suffering/emptiness. How we parse issues that come up as well as how we handle entitlement to happiness or lack thereof are important to achieving balance

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  • Need to achieve autonomy and learn how to find enjoyment/purpose regardless of external circumstance 

  • Autotelic people = internally driven = exhibit sense of purpose + curiosity. Higher % chance of achieving flow state  

  • Flow = situations where attention is invested to achieve a person’s goal

  • Searching for happiness = focus on how to make everyday life more harmonious rather than chasing money/status

  • Pleasure = restorative homeostatic experiences (basic needs) = sleep, rest, food, sex

  • How to get into flow state:

    • A challenging activity BUT have a chance of winning it (ex. top tennis player vs amateur isn’t it)

    • Clear goals

    • Immediate feedback = clear clues n how you are performing 

    • Allow to exercise control, esp if there is risk

    • No distractions. Zero

  • Need to re-frame from work that is an imposition/infringement on freedom to flow-like activity

  • Dissipative structures = harness and transform energy (ex earth, plans, humans with fire) = thus integrity of self depends on our ability to turn destructive events into positive ones 

  • Steps to deal with stress

    • Understand that your goals may be subordinate to some external constraints and play within those constraints 

    • Discover new solutions = every situation presents possibilities for growth? Do you need to alter goals? Are there other ways out? 

  • Biology (food/comfort/sex/dominance over others) and society (slim, rich, educated, well liked) create preconceived notions of happiness/success. If we embrace these goals and are lucky - we may replicate ideal physical/social image that fits within our point in time. Is this the best use of our energy/potential? What if we can’t realize some of these “societal” goals - is that failure?

Select quotes:

  • The best moments in our lives, are not the passive, receptive, relaxing times—although such experiences can also be enjoyable, if we have worked hard to attain them. The best moments usually occur when a person’s body or mind is stretched to its limits in a voluntary effort to accomplish something difficult and worthwhile

  • ...It is when we act freely, for the sake of the action itself rather than for ulterior motives, that we learn to become more than what we were

  • Of all the virtues we can learn no trait is more useful, more essential for survival, and more likely to improve the quality of life than the ability to transform adversity into an enjoyable challenge

  • It is better to look suffering straight in the eye, acknowledge and respect it’s presence, and then get busy as soon as possible focusing on things we choose to focus on

  • The mark of a person who is in control of consciousness is the ability to focus attention at will, to be oblivious to distractions, to concentrate for as long as it takes to achieve a goal, and not longer. And the person who can do this usually enjoys the normal course of everyday life


Lessons:

  • Meaningful things in life are on the edge. Raise the stakes. Seek challenges.

  • It is 100% possible to build a flow culture at work

  • It is possible to transform shit life throws at us into opportunities. Forge resolve

Select things I read this week that you might enjoy

  • Seven signs of ethical collapse. Signal that points to corporate scandal

  • 2023 predictions from 40 founders, investors and operators

  • How do you protect your children from internet addiction

  • What I learned at gitlab that I don’t want to forget

  • Carmack’s resignation letter

  • SBF written testimony notes

  • TikTok’s secret sauce. It is not the algo

  • 22 most amazing discoveries of 2022

Historic football match! Well-deserved by Messi and Argentina

have a good one

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same as with all other books - these are raw notes i’ve taken for myself after reading the book. encourage to skip to select quotes or to check out the book if this is interested and you want an unbiased POV

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